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Sanemi Shinazugawa ([personal profile] purifyingwind) wrote in [community profile] sticksandbones2026-04-21 01:20 pm

Not entirely a call for help, but – (Netbook)

been meaning to ask this since theyr e making us do all this arts and crafts shit while we're heere but does anyone knwo know how to train yourself to be ambidextrous

(uzui dont fucking interact)
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[personal profile] love_swan 2026-04-21 05:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I could probably make one of those writing practice sheets? It might be one of those things where you just have to practice?
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[personal profile] love_swan 2026-04-21 07:16 pm (UTC)(link)
From what I can tell it's a lot of strengthening muscles that control fine movement? It's not really something you can rush but doing things to force yourself to use those skills could help it go faster?

Sorry I'm not too much help. I've never done it myself but I know people who have.
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[personal profile] love_swan 2026-04-21 08:11 pm (UTC)(link)
About a month of working on it, if I recall!
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[personal profile] love_swan 2026-04-21 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
That's part of it, but it's also writing in a particular space to control size and precision.
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[personal profile] love_swan 2026-04-21 09:31 pm (UTC)(link)
For Japanese characters we usually use grid paper, but I'm not sure what you're used to?

[ Has no idea who he's talking to. ]
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[personal profile] love_swan 2026-04-21 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, are you from way in the past like Kyo-nii and Akkun? I can definitely try to help!
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[personal profile] love_swan 2026-04-21 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, sorry! Kyojuro-niisan and Akaza-san.

I always forget people can't tell who I'm talking about using nicknames...
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[personal profile] love_swan 2026-04-21 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
[ ooooooh... ]

If it helps, I was never a great student, so I don't think less of you or anything!
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[personal profile] outofsynth 2026-04-21 07:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Practice, but unless you're naturally ambidextrous it's going to take you a while.

Probably longer than we'll be at camp for.
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[personal profile] outofsynth 2026-04-21 07:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Unless you were discouraged from using one of your hands growing up, then pretty much, yeah. Except when you're using scissors or something which are pretty much always designed for right-handed people.

Fine motor skills take work. You probably could learn to use both hands if really wanted to, but it's not something you can take shortcuts to get better at. Especially if you have a strong preference for one hand over another.

Why do you even want to?
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[personal profile] outofsynth 2026-04-21 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)
[Oh. WELL. He sure regrets asking that.]

I like to keep my hand underneath the writing if I'm using my left hand. That lets me keep my hand on the page without smudging even if I'm using an inkier pen.
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[personal profile] outofsynth 2026-04-21 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
[For a number of reasons, Min-Gi normally does stick to using his right hand if people are going to see it. But today, just for Sanemi, he switches. The handwriting is noticeably different, though still just as legible and judging from the speed it appears it doesn't seem to be any more taxing.]

Yes. See? No smudging, and your arm doesn't get as tired as if you're trying to hold it out of the way all the time.

I'm sure it'll still feel weird at first, but hopefully you shouldn't feel like you need to use your right hand to help as much.
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[personal profile] outofsynth 2026-04-21 09:47 pm (UTC)(link)
You're basically learning from scratch, right? It'd be weirder if your handwriting was good right away.

To be honest, I don't remember when or how I learned any of this. I vaguely remember handwriting practice when I was a kid, but I don't remember what I was taught vs. what I figured out for myself.
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[personal profile] outofsynth 2026-04-21 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah. I would be frustrated too.

[He switches hands again, returning to his usual handwriting.]

I don't know. Maybe. I wasn't a very experimental kid. I just know for as long as I can remember it felt normal to me. My parents never minded as long as my handwriting was still neat.
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[personal profile] outofsynth 2026-04-21 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah. Kind of. I usually stick to right-handed for consistency though.

[Unfortunately this line of questioning does raise a slight sore spot that causes a bit of hesitation.]

English. I grew up in Canada, so that's always been easiest for me.
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[personal profile] outofsynth 2026-04-22 12:54 pm (UTC)(link)
If stroke order is more important I guess it could, but I don't think it makes much different. I use the same hand positions for Hangul.

[Which he is less willing to demonstrate, but he will concede to writing "민기" once with each hand. However this shows up for Sanemi, both instances are close to identical. While his name is one thing he is confident in, the letters are still so carefully formed it almost feels as though they belong in a textbook.]
Edited 2026-04-22 12:55 (UTC)
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[personal profile] outofsynth 2026-04-23 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm more careful with Hangul. Like I said, English is easier.

[Not that his handwriting in English isn't neat, but there is more of a personal touch even if it's subtle.]

As long as you can learn to write comfortably and legibly, I think that's all that really matters. Even if it ends up taking you a while, people will be understanding when you're having to learn how to use a completely different hand.
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[personal profile] souninind 2026-04-21 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
[He's interacting-]

It can help to write the same thing with both hands at the same time to train your nondominant hand the stroke order.

...But that's also how we found out one of my brothers could only write mirrored with his nondominant hand. You know, ƨiʜɈ ɘʞil
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[personal profile] souninind 2026-04-21 09:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Dunno, we hadn't lost any fingers yet. If it doesn't work, then there are other ways.

Hah probably. Could have been useful if our father wasn't pissed off about it.


[Coded and backwards that quickly??? But not perfect, so. You know. Founding members of the bad dads club, these two.]
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[personal profile] souninind 2026-04-21 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
If anyone's stubborn enough to figure it out...

No question about that one.

Oh, but in the meantime, you should try writing with your dominant hand from your elbow and shoulder instead of your wrist and fingers. Might be bigger but easier.
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[personal profile] souninind 2026-04-21 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
What do you think? .)

[It's a compliment, but he has to be a little shit.]

Haha guess it'll be obvious when your hand's tired, then!
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[personal profile] souninind 2026-04-21 10:30 pm (UTC)(link)
[Sanemi... polite? To him?

Sanemi... abducted by aliens?]
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[personal profile] souninind 2026-04-21 10:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, sure.

I can't demonstrate anything, but if you need someone to watch you practice for some better advice, let me know.
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[personal profile] charlastan 2026-04-27 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
YKNOW THE WHOLE "CONTRACTS AREN'T VALID IF YOU SIGN THEM WITH YOUR OPPOSITE HAND" THING IS A MYTH, IF THAT'S WHY YOU'RE TRYING IT.

DON'T ASK ME HOW I KNOW THAT.
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[personal profile] charlastan 2026-04-27 10:35 pm (UTC)(link)
REASONS TO TRAIN YOURSELF TO BE AMBI-WHATEVER

IF YOU'RE TRYING TO POSE AS SOMEONE ELSE I GUARANTEE YOU NO ONE EVER LOOKS THAT HARD