I mean... Everybody has their own experiences and thoughts. What's fine for someone might upset someone else. Their other relationships might influence how they feel about you. You have to change yourself in small ways to fit with one person to the next. And sometimes, nothing you can do will alleviate those worries for them.

I'm not... saying it isn't worth it. Just that it's... a lot harder than just... turning off, I guess.

[yeah, that hint is flying right over his head.]